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Radio Silent

Posted on 15. Nov, 2009 by Ringmaster in Fodder

Radio Silent

When life gets overwhelming, I retreat. I avoid family and friends and social situations. I stop calling. I stop emailing. I stop transmitting. I go completely radio silent.
Honestly, I don’t know if anyone really notices. Which is exactly what I prefer. It’s easy to just fade [...]

Magic Beans

Posted on 30. Oct, 2009 by Ringmaster in Fodder

Magic Beans

I used to travel a bit in my old job.  Whenever I was required to leave for more than a couple of days, I would promise to bring the kids a present.  This seemed to ease the pain for everyone, their sadness and my guilt. I know this wasn’t the best approach; it was just [...]

No Rhyme or Reason

Posted on 20. Oct, 2009 by Ringmaster in Fodder

No Rhyme or Reason

I have an unconventional child. He is different. He thinks, feels, and sees things differently. And although we celebrate the different under our Big Top, sometimes, different can be really hard.
There was a time when we thought he could navigate life and the education system like any other conventional child. [...]

Patching Things Up

Posted on 16. Oct, 2009 by admin in Fodder

Patching Things Up

Last week the Acrobat had her first Girl Scout meeting. It’s her second year as a Girl Scout, before that she was a Brownie.
It’s easy to distinguish her vest from the other thirteen vests in the room. Hers is strikingly absent of badges. Not a single patch can be found on [...]

What’s the Difference?

Posted on 15. Oct, 2009 by Ringmaster in Fodder

What’s the Difference?

My kids know that smoking and drugs are bad. They know they can kill you. They learn this in school and at home. It’s rare when they see someone smoking, but when they do, they usually point it out in disapproving shock.
I just realized that they probably don’t have the same [...]

The 200 Club

Posted on 13. Oct, 2009 by Ringmaster in Fodder

The 200 Club

Back when the Magician was in 2nd Grade, his teacher, Mrs. Smith, introduced the 200 Club. It was a way to motivate the kids to learn how to count to 200, and then 300, and so on.
When I started hearing about this club, I casually asked the Magician about it. I [...]

The War on Warts

Posted on 12. Oct, 2009 by Ringmaster in Fodder

The War on Warts

Once upon a time, the Painted Lady suffered from warts. She was embarrassed and self-conscious. They were on her knee and her hand and they just kept spreading and multiplying like bacteria in a petri dish. She tried Compound W with no results. Twice, she had a dermatologist painfully burn them off, [...]

Simplicity

Posted on 07. Oct, 2009 by Tod in Fodder

Simplicity

“Simplicity is about subtracting the obvious, and adding the meaningful.”
John Maeda

Harsh Realities

Posted on 05. Oct, 2009 by admin in Fodder

Harsh Realities

I love to sing. I also happen to be tone deaf. My dear, sweet Auntie Val broke this news to me years ago. I can’t remember how old I was, or what I felt. I just remember her telling me. That moment, although not the least bit traumatic, spared me years [...]

Lost and Found

Posted on 05. Oct, 2009 by admin in Fodder

Lost and Found

“You should know the Christians are converting the Jews in the neighborhood.” This was the phone call that I received from my neighbor. Mind you, we are not Mormons. My kids are not riding the streets in dark suits, carrying bibles and looking to convert anyone in their path. This was merely [...]